PROVERBS 25
15 With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.
16 If you have found honey, eat only enough for you,
lest you have your fill of it and vomit it.
17 Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house,
lest he have his fill of you and hate you.
18 A man who bears false witness against his neighbor
is like a war club, or a sword, or a sharp arrow.
19 Trusting in a treacherous man in time of trouble
is like a bad tooth or a foot that slips.
20 Whoever sings songs to a heavy heart is like one who takes off
a garment on a cold day, and like vinegar on soda.
27 It is not good to eat much honey, nor is it glorious to seek one’s own glory.
28 A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without wall.
-Proverbs 25:15-20,27-28
PROVERBS 25 SELF-CONTROL IS A SHIELD
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
As you grow in Christ, you will also develop self-regulation
You can now control your thoughts, emotions and reactions
When you walk in the Spirit, you’ll choose right living
You recognize that you no longer cater to your fleshly cravings
Even if the enemy attacks and bombard you with temptations
You can now overcome your former natural sinful inclinations
Because the Holy Spirit fortifies your whole mind, body and spirit
You now can triumph over all of the world system and Satan’s tactics.
Many people nowadays are dysregulated. The bible says that in the end times, people will be lovers of self in 2 Timothy 3:2. If our lives are focused on pleasuring ourselves, what do you think will happen? No one would even bother to know about other people around them. They may ignore or gaslight the existence of their loved ones too or live isolated lives.
Solomon talks about the importance of patience and gentleness and self-control in these following verses. In verse 15, he mentions that even a ruler can be persuaded by patience. Bridges comments on this verse as: “The gentle tongue breaking a bone might seem to be a paradox. But it is a fine illustration of the power of gentleness above hardness and irritation.” In verse 28, Solomon likens the uncontrolled and dysregulated man with a city without forts and walls. It has no shield or defense to anyone who’d like to take over it. It has no shield or protection. It is vulnerable to be defeated.
REFLECTION
- Cite how self-control has been a shield in any bible account or in your own life.






