ROMANS 8 LIVE BY THE SPIRIT TO HAVE SELF-CONTROL

May 24


ROMANS 8

12 So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. 13 For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. 14 For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. 15 For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16 The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. 19 For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God. 20 For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. – Romans 8:12-21


ROMANS 8 LIVE BY THE SPIRIT TO HAVE SELF-CONTROL

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

If you follow your own will, you will be living according to the flesh

There is a consequence if you cater and live to pleasure yourself

You will be facing conflicts and get angry when others don’t give in

Each time the flesh doesn’t gets its way, it will plot and scheme to sin

If you live by the Spirit of God, you will find peace and be self-controlled

You will not be bothered when others shine because you feel so secure

It is God who brings life to those who follow the lead of his Spirit

It is the devil who steals, kills and destroys and leads you to death.


Psalm 1 gives us a clear picture of the two opposing kingdoms here on earth. One that belongs to the righteous and the other that belongs to the wicked. Notice that Paul talks about two choices we have in living our lives: walking in the flesh or walking in the Spirit. One leads to life and the other leads to death.

We can say that the blessed that David was referring to in Psalm 1 are those who walk in the Spirit. They do not walk in the counsel of the wicked nor stand in the way of sinners, nor sit in the seats of scoffers but his delight is in the law of the Lord and meditates on it day and night.  The blessed ones or those walking in the Spirit are like trees planted by streams of water which yield fruits in its season and their leaves don’t wither. They prosper in all that they do. The second group of people are those who walk in the flesh and are likened in Psalm 1 to chaff that the wind drives away. They don’t stand in judgment, nor sinners in the midst of the righteous. The wicked will perish just like how Paul describes in this account that they will die.

Paul reminds the Christians that since they are now adopted in the family of God, they no longer have to live for the flesh but to follow the lead of the Spirit which brings life. Only by choosing to walk with God’s Spirit can we enjoy the fruit of a self-controlled life, otherwise, we will always cater to the flesh.


REFLECTION

·       What does a self-controlled life look like as compared to a hedonistic life?

ROMANS 12 SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINE

May 23


ROMANS 12

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. 3 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness. – Romans 12:1-8


ROMANS 12 SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINE

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

When we were chosen to be children of God

We were equipped with all that we need to grow

We were given the word of God so we can have a guide

It is a set of instructions to make us see and follow the light

We do not need to conform to all the systems of this world

Instead, we need to be changed by the renewal of our minds

Let us discipline our bodies, hearts, minds, souls and spirits

Let us cling to what is true, what is pure and what is right.


Paul reminds the church about the importance of spiritual discipline in this letter to the Romans. I am sure that even at that time in history, many people focus more on physical training rather than think of the mental and spiritual aspects of life. After all, the Greeks at that time were very concerned with their physical and strength training as they competed in many athletic endeavors. They began the Olympics, always aiming for being the best in their chosen field. Even in our world today, many men and women invest in gym memberships and are conscious about nutrition to keep their bodies in optimum health but neglect the mental and spiritual part of their being. I am not saying that priorities on the physical biological features of their bodies are not important, but in many cases, people neglect the mental and spiritual disciplines needed to live fuller lives.

Paul emphasizes the importance of spiritual discipline in this letter because the unseen parts of our being are usually neglected or forgotten. What many people don’t realize is that if our minds and hearts are not synchronized with God’s design for it, we will surely fail in living a life for the Lord. This is why Paul advises Christians not to conform with the world because it doesn’t account for the mind and spirit.


REFLECTION

·       Share some spiritual disciplines that you follow that have worked for you as a Christian.

1 TIMOTHY 2 GOD’S ORDER BRING ABOUT SELF-CONTROL

May 21


1 TIMOTHY 2

I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, 10 but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works. 11 Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve; 14 and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. 15 Yet she will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control. – 1 Timothy 2:8-15


1 TIMOTHY 2 GOD’S ORDER BRING ABOUT SELF-CONTROL

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

Without the acknowledgement of God’s order, there will be chaos

Every person will be seeking their own longings and desires

God created everything in this world with a purpose

The sequence of his creation is to bring peace and order

Man was created before woman so she is to submit to him

When a woman takes over a man’s role, she commits a sin

She will begin to take control of what is not given to her

Therefore, she will surely create chaos if she is out of order.


In this letter of Paul to Timothy, he points out to him the importance of God’s order and to remind the believers that following God’s order will bring about faith, love, holiness and self-control. For the men, he cautioned them to have self-control when praying, making sure that they have no resentments or anger when they pray since it will hinder their prayers. They were also warned not to quarrel among themselves for it will steal their peace and joy as they worship the Lord in prayer. What Paul was stressing here is the importance of coming to God in reverential posture. We serve a holy God and we cannot come to him when we are in conflict with others. Since we are all image-bearers of God, having a grudge on someone else is almost like having that same resentment towards God himself.

Another very important admonition in this letter is towards women. They are to clothe themselves modestly during worship and specifically instructed to have self-control by adorning themselves with things that may distract others’ attention. This is a problem with many churches today who do not have a dress code to follow and call attention to themselves when they come, distracting others from focusing on the worship service. Women were also told not to teach men since the men have authority over women. Older women can teach the younger women to love their husbands and be good wives and mothers but never to teach the men. There are so many churches who are out of order with this. Some even have women pastors in their churches. When we don’t follow God’s order, we will have no peace.


REFLECTION

·       Why is it very important to follow God’s order in all that we do as Christians?

ISAIAH 53 TOTAL SELF-CONTROL

May 20


ISAIAH 53

He was oppressed, and he was afflicted,

  yet he opened not his mouth;
  like a lamb that is led to the slaughter,

  and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent,

  so he opened not his mouth.
By oppression and judgment he was taken away;

  and as for his generation, who considered
  that he was cut off out of the land of the living,
  stricken for the transgression of my people?

And they made his grave with the wicked
    and with a rich man in his death,
    although he had done no violence,
    and there was no deceit in his mouth. Isaiah 53:7-9


ISAIAH 53 TOTAL SELF-CONTROL

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

Like a lamb led to be killed and a sheep before its shearers

Jesus didn’t react or opened his mouth before his abusers

Though he was oppressed, laughed at, tortured and mocked

He didn’t wince or complain but obeyed the will of God

Christ bore all the pain and suffering and had total self-control

Let us emulate his example of silence and learn to be humble.


This verse reminded me of someone I knew in my twenties. I couldn’t understand then why he never fought for his rights and allowed people to minimize him. He never reacted to all those who abused him. At that young age, I was taught to always fight for my rights and speak up when I am being mistreated. The trauma of not being cared for also made me fight back and never allowed anyone to oppress or misjudge me. I wasn’t a Christian until in my late fifties, so I didn’t know the concept of humility and total self-control.  The first time I read and studied these verses from Isaiah, I began to hear the Holy Spirit’s conviction on my tendencies to defend and protect myself.

As I studied Psalm 3:3 which says “But you, O Lord, are a shield about me, my glory, and the lifter of my head,” and this verse in Isaiah, I began to see how proud and arrogant I was. I didn’t know God that much at all. Because of trauma and not having someone defend me, I learned to take matters into my hands.

When I became a Christian, the Spirit began humbling me and corrected my tendency to automatically defend myself. I saw how I was following the patterns of the world system rather than the kingdom of God. The world won’t understand how Jesus left everything to his Father’s hands. It doesn’t understand humility and surrender. It is normal to defend oneself in this world system and be dysregulated.


REFLECTION

  • Why do you think humility and silence are crucial to have total self-control as Jesus sampled?

DEUTERONOMY 28 OBEDIENCE LEADS TO BLESSINGS

May 19


DEUTERONOMY 28

“And if you faithfully obey the voice of the Lord your God, being careful to do all his commandments that I command you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations of the earth. And all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, if you obey the voice of the Lord your God. Blessed shall you be in the city, and blessed shall you be in the field. Blessed shall be the fruit of your womb and the fruit of your ground and the fruit of your cattle, the increase of your herds and the young of your flock. Blessed shall be your basket and your kneading bowl. Blessed shall you be when you come in, and blessed shall you be when you go out. “The Lord will cause your enemies who rise against you to be defeated before you. They shall come out against you one way and flee before you seven ways. The Lord will command the blessing on you in your barns and in all that you undertake. And he will bless you in the land that the Lord your God is giving you. The Lord will establish you as a people holy to himself, as he has sworn to you, if you keep the commandments of the Lord your God and walk in his ways. 10 And all the peoples of the earth shall see that you are called by the name of the Lord, and they shall be afraid of you. 11 And the Lord will make you abound in prosperity, in the fruit of your womb and in the fruit of your livestock and in the fruit of your ground, within the land that the Lord swore to your fathers to give you.   Deuteronomy 28:1-11


DEUTERONOMY 28 OBEDIENCE LEADS TO BLESSINGS

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

You are called to obey the Lord if you are part of his people

If you follow his laws and do as he command, you are faithful

Faithfulness is rewarded by God with much blessings

You will bear fruit in whatever you are undertaking

The Lord will establish you and you will be blessed

You will also be shielded from the enemies’ plots

You will never be defeated by anyone but will be victors

Because you have God on your side, you’ll be conquerors

You will be set above all nations and be looked up to

Everyone will recognize the presence of the Lord in you.


In this account, we hear Moses stressing the importance of obedience to God’s holy laws. As we obey his commands and statutes, we gain much discipline and confidence to navigate this corrupt world. We become fruitful as a result of abiding in his commands. Obedience in itself is a form of discipline. In other words, if we don’t obey, we will find out that things will be hard to come by. It will be difficult to make progress in anything we venture in. So, Moses gave the Israelites a list of consequences to obeying God’s laws. He says that faithfulness to his commands will result in fruitfulness. Verse 2 uses a very strong word “blessings will come upon you and overtake you.” It sounds like a force taking over our whole being and we cannot help but experience God’s grace and blessings.


REFLECTION

  • What blessings have you been poured upon as a result of obeying God’s will and commands?

PROVERBS 23 DIRECT YOUR HEART IN THE WAY

May 18


PROVERBS 23

19 Hear, my son, and be wise, and direct your heart in the way.
20 Be not among drunkards or among gluttonous eaters of meat,
21 for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty,
     and slumber will clothe them with rags.

22 Listen to your father who gave you life,
    and do not despise your mother when she is old.
23 Buy truth, and do not sell it; buy wisdom, instruction, and understanding.
24 The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice;

    he who fathers a wise son will be glad in him.
25 Let your father and mother be glad; let her who bore you rejoice.

26 My son, give me your heart, and let your eyes observemy ways.

                                                                             – Proverbs 23:19-26


PROVERBS 23 DIRECT YOUR HEART IN THE WAY

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

To all believers, direct your heart in the way of the Lord

If you fail to focus on him, you will be overcome by this world

Study and meditate on his word day and night to discern evil

Be watchful for the devil’s purpose is to destroy, kill and steal

Listen to your father and mother whom God has given you

It is a way of honoring me when you heed their instructions

Do not associate with drunkards and gluttons; they’re bad influence

Stay pure and don’t fail to meet with the communion of saints

Always seek the truth and never compromise it with hedonism

Stand on God’s promises so you won’t be enticed by false teachings.


Solomon emphasizes in these verses the importance of focusing our hearts, minds and souls to the right way. When we remove our attention on the Lord and his word, we become targets to the enemy to devour. It doesn’t need to be big distractions; it could be little things that will remove our eyes on Jesus. An intrusive thought could begin to make us doubt our abilities or the truth. A visual or auditory stimuli can derail us from our time with God as we get dysregulated by such stimuli. When we don’t prioritize God moment by moment, we will be catering to our flesh. This is why the bible calls us to love the Lord with all your heart, mind, soul and strength. We are also called to seek first God’s kingdom and whatever you ask will be given unto you. I find myself spun and dysregulated when I entertain all these distractions instead of pressing on to focus on God’s word. My time gets stolen and I become unproductive for God.

Solomon also stresses the importance of obedience to our parents since they were assigned to us by God as authorities. He also warns us to choose our company well so that we don’t lose self-control.


REFLECTION

·       How do you direct your life in the way of the Lord and why is it important to do it constantly?

HOSEA 4 IDOLATRY LEADS TO DEBAUCHERY

May 17


HOSEA 4

The more they increased, the more they sinned against me;

I will change their glory into shame.They feed on the sin of my people;

they are greedy for their iniquity.And it shall be like people, like priest;

I will punish them for their ways and repay them for their deeds.
10 They shall eat, but not be satisfied; they shall play the whore, but not multiply,
because they have forsaken the Lord to cherish 11 whoredom, wine, and new wine,
which take away the understanding.12 My people inquire of a piece of wood,

and their walking staff gives them oracles. For a spirit of whoredom has led them astray, 

and they have left their God to play the whore. – Hosea 4:7-12


HOSEA 4 IDOLATRY LEADS TO DEBAUCHERY

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

When you turn away from God, you are turning to other idols

Some of these idols could be anything that heightens desires

It could be wine, whoredom, any object, or any substance

It could even be a loved one, work or anything you love much

The path of the selfish is the one that leads to debauchery

While the path of the wise and faithful leads to eternity

The spirit of whoredom will definitely lead you to be lost

While the Holy Spirit leads you to the Lord of lords.


This account of Hosea is God’s response to the ungratefulness of the Israelites. Despite God’s faithfulness in showering them with many blessings, they reciprocated with much idolatry. Instead of staying grateful and loyal to God for all his provisions for them, they abused it and misused and desecrated what God meant holy. They turned their backs on the Lord himself and worshipped other pagan gods. Even the priests who were supposed to be the examples of purity have defiled themselves by consuming what they were not allowed. According to Constable’s commentary “Israel’s priests were feeding on the sin offerings that the people brought to their pagan shrines. Yet since these offerings were to idols it was as though the priests really fed on the people’s sins. The priests desired these offerings, which meant they wanted the people to practice idolatry so they would bring more sacrifices.” Isn’t that a disgrace to God? They were stewards to bring the people to purity and they actually defile their calling.

It is easy to bow down to anything instead of giving God glory, but Hosea’s account gives us a picture of how God reacts to unfaithfulness. He calls it whoredom. It is prostituting our faith and yoking with other little gods that compete with the only One true God. In our world today, idolatry could be very covertly hidden in the things we love like family, spouse, career, food, alcohol, drugs, sex and even hobbies that look good on the surface but consume us. Idolatry always leads to debauchery. Be watchful.


REFLECTION

  • Why do we need to be vigilant to identify what kinds of idols we are tempted to bow down to?

1 CORINTHIANS 15 BAD COMPANY RUINS PURITY

May 16


1 CORINTHIANS 15

27 For “Godhas put all things in subjection under his feet.” But when it says, “all things are put in subjection,” it is plain that he is excepted who put all things in subjection under him. 28 When all things are subjected to him, then the Son himself will also be subjected to him who put all things in subjection under him, that God may be all in all.29 Otherwise, what do people mean by being baptized on behalf of the dead? If the dead are not raised at all, why are people baptized on their behalf? 30 Why are we in danger every hour? 31 I protest, brothers, by my pride in you, which I have in Christ Jesus our Lord, I die every day! 32 What do I gain if, humanly speaking, I fought with beasts at Ephesus? If the dead are not raised, “Let us eat and drink, for tomorrow we die.” 33 Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” 34 Wake up from your drunken stupor, as is right, and do not go on sinning. For some have no knowledge of God. I say this to your shame. – 1 Corinthians 15:27-34


1 CORINTHIANS 15 BAD COMPANY RUINS PURITY

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

As we serve the Lord, we are called to a life of holiness

Our bodies belong to him; we out to live by his righteousness

We were set apart from unbelievers, let us be watchful

God’s Spirit helps us discern what is right from what’s sinful

Bad company ruins purity, abide in Christ so you’ll be holy

Be with the saints so you’ll grow, mature and serve God fully.


In this letter of Paul to the church in Corinth, he emphasizes the importance of choosing the people you associate with. It doesn’t mean that they discriminate against those who are not in Christ Jesus because all believers are charged with spreading the gospel to all those who do not know God. As Christians, we need to be constantly watchful of the unseen forces that wage war with us moment by moment aiming to devour us. In Ephesians 6:12, Paus also warned the church in Ephesus that a believer’s struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavens. 1 Peter 5:8 also warns all believers to be alert and be of sober mind for the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. The devil’s goal is to steal, kill and destroy especially those who are serving the Lord. It is a trophy for him to destroy those who belong to the camp of righteousness. So, as Christians, we must never keep our focus away from Jesus.

Paul points out that being in bad company can derail us from the sanctification process that the Holy Spirit is doing in our lives. Those who do not know God do not have this dilemma because they are not called to be holy. They live for their lusts and desires, but the believer lives for righteousness. There is an idiom that says “Birds of the same feathers flock together” which only goes to say that we gravitate to those whom we have shared values and characteristics with. This is why God set apart his people from the world so that the maturity of our faith will not be hindered.


REFLECTION

  • Share some insights on how bad company can ruin your walk with the Lord.

ROMANS 8 SET YOUR MIND ON THE SPIRIT

May 15


ROMANS 8

There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set youfree in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death. For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin, he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.  – Romans 8:1-8


ROMANS 8 SET YOUR MIND ON THE SPIRIT

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

When you were chosen by God to be his own child

He gave you his Spirit so you can know what is right

The Spirit gives you the ability to discern right from wrong

He prods you to do what is good & gives you self-control

If you set your mind on the Spirit, you will not be deceived

So, keep your eyes on Jesus and continue to believe in him

Do not let your sinful nature creep in and make you sin

If you set your mind on God’s Spirit, you will surely win.


In this letter, Paul exposes the devil’s tactics of accusation and condemnation. He does it very stealthily that it is not easy to spot until we are already hooked into the lies. Have you ever got up in the morning and have great plans for the day and thought that you can accomplish that task and suddenly you begin to doubt whether you are capable of realizing that plan? That was subtle but there was a lie injected into your mind. There is this thought that suddenly questions you with “Do you really think you are capable of doing that?” Remember how Adam and Eve were tempted in the garden? It was an accusation against God when the serpent told Eve “Did he really say you were going to die if you eat a fruit from that tree?”

The trick is to make you doubt your identity or ability. It is to derail the authority that was given to us by God himself. We were not given a spirit of fear or doubt but of sound mind, power and love. So, when these kinds of questions begin to enter our minds, we are surely being lied to.

Paul reminds the believers that if they are in Christ, there is no condemnation. The devil always wants to twist our thinking and make us doubt the gifts and authority given to us by God. He doesn’t want us to grow our faith and dependence on God. Paul’s antidote to these accusations, is to set the mind on the Spirit instead of setting it on the flesh. By focusing on the Spirit’s leading, we will never go wrong. We will have confidence and boldness. The devil likes to confuse and create chaos in us.


REFLECTION

·       Share some insights as to the struggles in your mind and how it manifests in your bodies.

PSALM 141 A PRAYER FOR SELF-CONTROL

May 14


PSALM 141

O Lord, I call upon you; hasten to me!
    Give ear to my voice when I call to you!
Let my prayer be counted as incense before you,
    and the lifting up of my hands as the evening sacrifice!

Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth;
    keep watch over the door of my lips!
Do not let my heart incline to any evil,
    to busy myself with wicked deeds
in company with men who work iniquity,
    and let me not eat of their delicacies! – Psalm 141:1-4


PSALM 141 A PRAYER FOR SELF-CONTROL

A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses

O Lord, I plead you to come to my aid when I am being tempted to sin

Keep me always under your shield so that I will overcome it and win

Guard my mouth so that I won’t open doors for the enemy to attack

Do not let my heart stray and let me always trust & obey your commands

Keep me busy only with worshipping you in truth and in Spirit

Let me never cater to my flesh and give in to the enemy’s tactics

Let me seek you first always in every thing so that I can stay holy

Let my whole life be an example for others to follow you fully.


This psalm of David is a prayer of lament so that he can be protected from his enemies who wants him out of the picture. His own son Absalom and King Saul whom he served were those obsessed to kill him. That must be very distressing to know that these two people were very close to him and yet want him out. David has proven himself to be one of the best warriors. He could easily take them down. He honors his Lord and never wants to retaliate to them because he knows that God didn’t want him to take vengeance over them. He knew that the Lord is his shield and his protection. So, instead of strategically planning to defeat these two people who he could have easily done, he prayed to the Lord for a prayer of self-control and protection. We see how much David knew the Lord. He will never do anything contrary to what God expects from him.

There is a sense of urgency to this prayer in the first two verses. He offers his helplessness and fear of what he might do to these people he loved to the Lord as if he was bringing a sacrifice to God. Many unbelievers would think this is cowardly, but it is actually a true sense of courage. When we allow God to fight for us and be our defender, we are exercising humility and dependence on him. What greater sacrifice can we give to God than to offer our complete trust and dependence on him!


REFLECTION

  • Why is self-control something we need to depend and trust God for instead of us doing it?