EPHESIANS 5
18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, 19 addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, 20 giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body.
– Ephesians 5:18-30
EPHESIANS 5 SUBMIT TO ONE ANOTHER
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
As a child of God, we ought to revere our Lord Jesus Christ
We therefore submit to one another to show our obedience
Because we are part of his church, we are members of his body
Failing to honor and respect each other is a lack of love for our brothers
Husbands are called to take authority over their wives and are to love them
Wives are to respect and submit to their husbands in everything
Submitting to one another in love is the only way we show God our love
In submission to one another, we become united in the body of Christ.
Why did Paul stress the importance of submission to one another in this letter to the Ephesians? He wanted the believers to be set apart from the world. As we live in this corrupt world, our desire is to satisfy ourselves and do as we please. Paul reminds every believer that this is not how God’s law of love is based on. God’s law is based on sacrificial love. When we do not become accountable for each other, we are not exercising sacrificial love because we do not place others as a priority. Of course, God must be the ultimate priority in our lives but the concept of submission follows the command of God to love him first and then our neighbors as ourselves. Notice that it didn’t say love God and then yourself and then others. Because of our sinful nature, we tend to make ourselves first than our neighbors. Thus, God commands his people to think of others first rather than their own. If every believer followed this command, there will be no quarrels or envy among the body of Christ, there will be unity and harmony and the law of love will be complete. Then we will be free from the bondage of sin. This is why James talks about the importance of following all of the laws of liberty because if you miss one out, you are disobeying the rest.
REFLECTION
· Why did God command us to submit to one another as if we are actually submitting to him?







