1 JOHN 4
13 By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. 14 And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15 Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. 16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. 19 We love because he first loved us. 20 If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. 21 And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother. – 1 John 4:13-21
1 JOHN 4 THE SOURCE OF LOVE
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
God is love and only he gives it
The world’s love is not like his
We can only love because He first loved us
His love is unconditional, pure and selfless
Love is manifested through his only Begotten Son
Love others so you can show that you truly love God.
It is interesting how many people think that they can fabricate love. Those who don’t know God have no idea that God is the only source of love. They don’t know that God created us all in his image. Since God is love himself, we are all made for love. Our purpose is for love. We ought to give love and receive it too. When we were born, our parents ought to love and care for us so that we can grow up as loving people. There are so many people who were not loved by unloving parents who did not know God. How else do you think these loved-deprived children would grow up? In psychology, these individuals grow up with attachment disorders. These are mental illnesses that resulted from trauma, neglect, abuse and being unloved as young children. What psychology does not explain is that the human being is made for love as God created us all for, and when it doesn’t get it, it creates all kinds of mental health issues. According to the National Institute of Health between 52-54% of surveyed juvenile delinquents and young offenders meet the criteria for attachment disorder or borderline attachment disorder.
John explains in this account that God is the only source of love and we need to give him credit for it. This is the reason why we are able to love outside of ourselves. Without God loving us first, we are not capable of loving anyone else besides ourselves. When we believe in God, we recognize that we can only know true love because he loved us first. It is a gift and we cannot boast about it. We need to give it to others as he gave his love to us through his Son Jesus Christ.
REFLECTION
· Why do so many people think that they can give love away without receiving God’s love first?








