JOHN 15
12 “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command you. 15 No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. 17 These things I command you, so that you will love one another. 18 “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. 19 If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. 20 Remember the word that I said to you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will also keep yours. 21 But all these things they will do to you on account of my name, because they do not know him who sent me. – John 15:12-21
JOHN 15 SACRIFICIAL LOVE
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
To love someone truly is to lay down your life for that person
Jesus died for us all so that we can be free from our sin nature
When God chose you as his own, you can now bear fruits of love
You are now capable of giving that same love he gave you
Christ sampled for us the greatest love of all when he died for us
Giving up your life for someone is the true sign that you love God
When you love someone, you are willing to do what benefits him
You don’t prioritize yourself but serving that friend is your priority.
John explains what it truly means to love in this account. It seems impossible to love others as God has loved us, doesn’t it? But in verse 12, we are commanded to do so. Because God made us all in his image, we have that potential innate in us to give that same love that he gave us. In fact, many of us think of love as a transactional thing (that’s because Satan has twisted the meaning of true love). Because of sin, we think that we only give love to those who can give it back to us. When God created us, he wasn’t expecting us to love him back for his own sake. He was commanding it from us so that we can follow the law of love and be able to fulfill the purpose of our lives: to love and be loved.
What does it mean to lay down one’s life for a friend in verse 13? It is not literally to die for someone but it is defining the sacrificial aspect of loving someone. By sacrificial, it means that your priority has shifted from making yourself first to making that other person first. Imagine, if we all practice sacrificial love. How wonderful the world would be if each person thinks less of himself and thinks of his friends’ welfare first! There will be less narcissists in this world, won’t it?
REFLECTION
· Share some ways sacrificial love manifests in relationships.








