EPHESIANS 4
Put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil. 28 Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. 29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
– Ephesians 4:23-32
EPHESIANS 4 CONTROLLED & RIGHT ANGER
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
God gave us anger to use it against injustice and cruelty
It’s alright to be angry when someone is treated unfairly
It’s this anger that defends the weak and show love for our neighbors
It is a controlled anger that wants what is right and good for others
But if anger is to cater to oneself, it will prioritize the flesh
Selfish anger will not be for others’ benefit but for the self
It is this kind of anger that is driven by pride that leads to sin
It wants to seek attention that leads to dysregulation so as to win.
Many people don’t like to see or manifest anger in their lives. Anger has earned a bad rap in many individuals. The enemy has twisted the idea of anger, but if you think about it, God is not shy to show his anger or even wrath to wickedness and sin. We read many stories in the bible when God annihilated a whole city of Sodom and Gomorrah because of their wicked ways and unrepentant heart. If you know the Lord your God, you know that you were made in his image as Genesis 1:27 says. What corrupted the idea of anger is the sin that the serpent enticed Adam and Eve to do. Because the devil twisted their minds by making them doubt God’s provision and prohibition of the eating from the tree of life, they felt that they wouldn’t anger God by going against what they were told not to eat. But, the anger of God was still expressed against the fall and they were banished from the garden. This is a righteous anger from God because they defied God’s warning about the tree.
In this letter of Paul to the church in Ephesus, he points out that anger is not bad in itself nor is it a sin, unless we use it for our own benefit. Anger is a form of protection from evil, not a license to do what is wrong. Anger is to protect God’s image-bearer, not to corrupt and use it to get what one wants.
REFLECTION
· Share what kinds of anger are controlled and which ones are not. Cite some examples.







