GENESIS 29 JACOB’S 7 YEARS DOWRY OFFER TO MARRY RACHEL

February 1


GENESIS 29

15 Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my kinsman, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” 16 Now Laban had two daughters. The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah’s eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. 18 Jacob loved Rachel. And he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” 19 Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me.” 20 So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.  – Genesis 29:15-20


GENESIS 29 JACOB’S 7 YEARS DOWRY OFFER TO MARRY RACHEL

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

As soon as Laban knew Jacob was his kinsman

He sets out to get something from his relative Jacob

To ask Rachel’s hand, he offered 7 years of service for Laban

He didn’t think 7 years were too long since he loved Rachel so much

Laban also thought that it was better to marry off Rachel to him

Instead of giving her to be the wife of someone who wasn’t his own kin.


After Jacob had stayed a month with Laban, he must have worked hard to serve and earn his stay in their home. Even though at his home, Jacob had servants to serve him in Isaac’s household. They were wealthy. When he arrived at his uncle’s house, he had nothing much to offer since he was fleeing from his brother’s wrath and threat to his life. We see the integrity of Jacob’s heart to offer his services for seven years. That seems to me like a very generous gift for someone who was never a hired servant in his family of origin. His love for Rachel probably became the driving force for him to offer that dowry so Laban couldn’t refuse it, and he could finally marry his beloved Rachel.

In this account, we also get a character sketch of Laban. Since Jacob’s arrival a month ago, he must have seen how hard-working Jacob was. That’s why the offer for seven years of service for his daughter’s hand in marriage seemed profitable for him. He can scheme for a profitable venture and it seemed like this was one of those lucrative schemes. He had to grab the chance to get profit.


REFLECTION

·       What trait of Jacob and Laban can we surmise from this account?

GENESIS 29 EMOTIONALLY CHARGED REUNION

January 31


GENESIS 29

While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her father’s sheep, for she was a shepherdess. 10 Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother’s brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother’s brother, Jacob came near and rolled the stone from the well’s mouth and watered the flock of Laban his mother’s brother. 11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud. 12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father’s kinsman, and that he was Rebekah’s son, and she ran and told her father.13 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister’s son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him to his house. Jacob told Laban all these things, 14 and Laban said to him, “Surely you are my bone and my flesh!” And he stayed with him a month. Genesis 29:9-14


GENESIS 29 EMOTIONALLY CHARGED REUNION

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

When Jacob saw Rachel, he was overcome with emotions

It must have been such a relief to find his mother’s kin

Jacob was emotionally charged and smitten by Rachel

He couldn’t help himself but kissed Laban’s daughter.

Rachel ran to her father to announce Jacob’s arrival

Laban was overjoyed seeing his sister’s beloved son

He ran to meet him and embraced and kissed him

Then he said to Jacob “You are my bone and my flesh.”


Jacob must have felt relieved finding out from the men in the well that he finally had come to where his relatives lived and that they knew his uncle Laban. After travelling all the way fleeing from his brother’s wrath and seeking refuge for his safety, we find Jacob laying his eyes for the first time on Rachel. He was overjoyed and excited and smitten by her and so emotionally charged that he kissed her. Rachel also enthusiastically runs to her father to bring him the news of Jacob’s arrival. Laban was also so happy to see his nephew whom he probably never laid eyes on since his sister left to be taken away and be Isaac’s wife.  What an emotionally charged reunion of their family. It was such a warm welcome they gave Jacob on his arrival at their home.


REFLECTION

  • Why do you think Jacob, Rachel and Laban were all emotionally charged here?

GENESIS 29 JACOB MEETS RACHEL

January 30


GENESIS 29

Then Jacob went on his journey and came to the land of the people of the east. As he looked, he saw a well in the field, and behold, three flocks of sheep lying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were watered. The stone on the well’s mouth was large, and when all the flocks were gathered there, the shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and water the sheep, and put the stone back in its place over the mouth of the well.Jacob said to them, “My brothers, where do you come from?” They said, “We are from Haran.” He said to them, “Do you know Laban the son of Nahor?” They said, “We know him.” He said to them, “Is it well with him?” They said, “It is well; and see, Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep!” He said, “Behold, it is still high day; it is not time for the livestock to be gathered together. Water the sheep and go, pasture them.” But they said, “We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled from the mouth of the well; then we water the sheep.”  – Genesis 29:1-8


GENESIS 29 JACOB MEETS RACHEL

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

After his meeting with God and assurance of providence for him

Jacob continued his journey towards the east and saw a well in the field

There were three flocks of sheep lying beside it and gathered in the well

He asked the men tending the flock if they knew his uncle.

And they said they knew Laban, the son of Nahor

What joy it would have been to be directed to his own kin

Then Rachel came with her flock as she shepherded them

Jacob was smitten and overjoyed to see her and he kissed her.


This account shows us God’s faithfulness and providence for Jacob all of his journey to find his uncle’s place. We see how he was directly pointed to where Rachel usually goes to tend to her flock. Her name actually means “female sheep”. What a great clue as to how Rachel must have been. Sheep are usually meek and very gentle animals. They have 360-degree peripheral vision. They are very intelligent with impressive memory and recognition skills and can make different sounds to communicate different emotions and can display and recognise emotion by facial expressions. No wonder Jacob was smitten.


REFLECTION

  • Do you think God orchestrated the meeting of Jacob & Rachel at the well? Why?

GENESIS 28 JACOB WORSHIPS AND VOWS AT BETHEL

January 29


GENESIS 28

18 So early in the morning Jacob took the stone that he had put under his head and set it up for a pillar and poured oil on the top of it. 19 He called the name of that place Bethel, but the name of the city was Luz at the first. 20 Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat and clothing to wear, 21 so that I come again to my father’s house in peace, then the Lord shall be my God, 22 and this stone, which I have set up for a pillar, shall be God’s house. And of all that you give me I will give a full tenth to you.”

                                                                   – Genesis 28:18-22


GENESIS 28 JACOB WORSHIPS AND VOWS AT BETHEL

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

After Jacob rested and dreamed of the ladder to heaven

He took that stone that he rested his head on

He set it up on a pillar and anointed it with oil

Then he called that place Bethel and made a vow

If God will be with him always and provide for all his needs

He will give a tenth of everything that he receives.


In this account, we get a glimpse of Jacob’s acknowledgement and gratitude to the Lord who kept him safe and provided for during his journey to go to his uncle in Paddan-aram. What an assurance that was when he dreamed of the ladder to heaven and how the Lord promised him that he will always be with him until his covenant promise to his grandfather Abraham is fulfilled.

Earlier, he just stole his brother’s blessing and birthright which led him to flee because of his anger and plot to kill him. I would imagine that there must be fear in him because we know that he is a tent dweller and not a hunter like his brother. It must have been a challenge to travel for him. And yet, we see his obedience to his mother: first, even though he didn’t think he would be able to follow her plan, he still honored her despite those fears. Because of such obedience, God spoke to him and reiterated his covenant promise to his grandfather Abraham.


REFLECTION

  • Why is worship the right response to anything that we have received from God?

GENESIS 28 THE LADDER TO HEAVEN

January 28


GENESIS 28

10 Jacob left Beersheba and went toward Haran. 11 And he came to a certain place and stayed there that night, because the sun had set. Taking one of the stones of the place, he put it under his head and lay down in that place to sleep. 12 And he dreamed, and behold, there was a ladder set up on the earth, and the top of it reached to heaven. And behold, the angels of God were ascending and descending on it! 13 And behold, the Lord stood above it and said, “I am the Lord, the God of Abraham your father and the God of Isaac. The land on which you lie I will give to you and to your offspring. 14 Your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall spread abroad to the west and to the east and to the north and to the south, and in you and your offspring shall all the families of the earth be blessed. 15 Behold, I am with you and will keep you wherever you go, and will bring you back to this land. For I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you.” 16 Then Jacob awoke from his sleep and said, “Surely the Lord is in this place, and I did not know it.” 17 And he was afraid and said, “How awesome is this place! This is none other than the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven.” – Genesis 28:10-17


GENESIS 28 THE LADDER TO HEAVEN

As we listen to the account of the journey of Jacob to go to his mother’s brother Laban to find a wife from her clan, we can have a hard time imagining how long it takes to travel either by foot or on a camel or donkey during those times. He was fleeing from an angry brother who wanted to kill him, but at the same time, he was exposed to all the elements in that journey. Esau could have pursued him and killed him in his sleep. He laid his head on a stone. It must have either been under a tree or just by a rock where he got a smaller stone to rest his head. So, it would seem that he was on the ground and feeling the coldness (even in the desert places, the night air could be cold too) of the earth. What an irony that he was in a very uncomfortable (in our modern concept of comfort) place when he dreamed of the ladder that goes up to heaven.

Matthew Henry’s commentary on the ladder to heaven spoke about Jesus, being the ladder that takes us to our Heavenly Father. The feet of the ladder symbolize Jesus’ humanity; the steps of the ladder are his body, the actual sacrifice he gave for us to make it possible for us to reconcile with our Heavenly Father. Jesus is the ladder, the mediator.


REFLECTION

  • How and why do you think God shows up during our most uncomfortable times?

GENESIS 28 ESAU’S JEALOUSY OVER JACOB’S OBEDIENCE

January 27


GENESIS 28

Then Isaac called Jacob and blessed him and directed him, “You must not take a wife from the Canaanite women. Arise, go to Paddan-aram to the house of Bethuel your mother’s father, and take as your wife from there one of the daughters of Laban your mother’s brother. God Almighty bless you and make you fruitful and multiply you, that you may become a company of peoples. May he give the blessing of Abraham to you and to your offspring with you, that you may take possession of the land of your sojournings that God gave to Abraham!” Thus Isaac sent Jacob away. And he went to Paddan-aram, to Laban, the son of Bethuel the Aramean, the brother of Rebekah, Jacob’s and Esau’s mother.Now Esau saw that Isaac had blessed Jacob and sent him away to Paddan-aram to take a wife from there, and that as he blessed him he directed him, “You must not take a wife from the Canaanite women,” and that Jacob had obeyed his father and his mother and gone to Paddan-aram. So when Esau saw that the Canaanite women did not please Isaac his father, Esau went to Ishmael and took as his wife, besides the wives he had, Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael, Abraham’s son, the sister of Nebaioth. – Genesis 28:1-9


GENESIS 28 ESAU’S JEALOUSY OVER JACOB’S OBEDIENCE

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

Jacob obeyed Rebekah’s request for him to leave for Paddan-aram

It was best for him to take a wife from Rebekah’s brother’s clan

Isaac gave all the blessing to Jacob and he was sent off to go

Esau’s jealousy over Jacob’s obedience was so strong

He wanted to please Isaac, so he married Ishmael’s daughter

He was so envious of Jacob’s blessings so he got Mahalath as his wife.


Esau was seething with jealousy and envy for what Jacob’s blessing got from their father before he left for Paddan-aram. Esau didn’t do what is right with God, instead he married two Hittites wives earlier which made it hard for Rebekah and Isaac. So, to please his father, he went to marry Ishmael’s daughter, one of Abraham’s sons.

It is sad to watch people just do what is right to get something back in return. They do not do it out of love and fear of the Lord. It is a transactional relationship.


REFLECTION

  • How can jealousy and envy further bring us down the rabbit-hole?

GENESIS 27 ESAU THREATS TO KILL JACOB

January 26


GENESIS 27

39 Then Isaac his father answered and said to him: “Behold, away fromthe fatness of the earth shall your dwelling be, and away from the dew of heaven on high. 40 By your sword you shall live, and you shall serve your brother; but when you grow restless you shall break his yoke from your neck.”41 Now Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing with which his father had blessed him, and Esau said to himself, “The days of mourning for my father are approaching; then I will kill my brother Jacob.” 42 But the words of Esau her older son were told to Rebekah. So she sent and called Jacob her younger son and said to him, “Behold, your brother Esau comforts himself about you by planning to kill you. 43 Now therefore, my son, obey my voice. Arise, flee to Laban my brother in Haran 44 and stay with him a while, until your brother’s fury turns away— 45 until your brother’s anger turns away from you, and he forgets what you have done to him. Then I will send and bring you from there. Why should I be bereft of you both in one day?”

46 Then Rebekah said to Isaac, “I loathe my life because of the Hittite women. If Jacob marries one of the Hittite women like these, one of the women of the land, what good will my life be to me?” – Genesis 27:32-46


GENESIS 27 ESAU THREATS TO KILL JACOB

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

After Esau heard his unfortunate blessing from his father

He was furious with the outcome of that deception of his brother

He threatened to kill Jacob once their father passed on

Rebekah heard this threat and warned Jacob to flee to Haran.

Rebekah was concerned that Jacob would also marry a Hittite woman

She asked Jacob to move to Haran and stay with his brother Laban

Up until the wrath of Esau subsides, he will stay there to be safe

Rebekah showed much concern for both her sons to stay alive.


What a mother’s heart Rebekah had. She didn’t want her sons to fight over their received blessing and end up being killed by one. She probably was already suffering from Esau’s choice to take Hittite wives. To protect Jacob from being killed by Esau, she told him to go and stay with her brother Laban until Esau’s anger subsided.


REFLECTION

  • Why do you think Rebekah told Jacob to flee from Esau aside from being killed?

GENESIS 27 JACOB’S DECEPTION DISCOVERED

January 25


GENESIS 27

32 His father Isaac said to him, “Who are you?” He answered, “I am your son, your firstborn, Esau.” 33 Then Isaac trembled very violently and said, “Who was it then that hunted game and brought it to me, and I ate it all before you came, and I have blessed him? Yes, and he shall be blessed.” 34 As soon as Esau heard the words of his father, he cried out with an exceedingly great and bitter cry and said to his father, “Bless me, even me also, O my father!” 35 But he said, “Your brother came deceitfully, and he has taken away your blessing.” 36 Esau said, “Is he not rightly named Jacob? For he has cheated me these two times. He took away my birthright, and behold, now he has taken away my blessing.” Then he said, “Have you not reserved a blessing for me?” 37 Isaac answered and said to Esau, “Behold, I have made him lord over you, and all his brothers I have given to him for servants, and with grain and wine I have sustained him. What then can I do for you, my son?” 38 Esau said to his father, “Have you but one blessing, my father? Bless me, even me also, O my father.” And Esau lifted up his voice and wept. – Genesis 27:32-38


GENESIS 27 JACOB’S DECEPTION DISCOVERED

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

After Jacob received the blessing from Isaac, Esau comes

He wept so bitterly and begged Isaac to give him a blessing too

But Isaac, despite his anger at the deception couldn’t take it back

Jacob already got the blessing and now he will lord over Esau

Jacob will be served by all his other brothers as well

Esau continued to weep at his stolen birthright and blessing.


What a sad fate for Esau to carefully prepare a meal for his father Isaac so he could get the blessing, only to discover that his younger brother fraudulently stole it from him. At first, Isaac was so angry at the deception, but got his footing back and declared to Esau that he gave the blessing to Jacob already and cannot take it back. He cried and wept but I think that he had taken for granted both his birthright and the blessing. After all, Jacob was the chosen one and not him. It was God’s plan to have Jacob lord over all his brothers. It seemed cruel for Esau but it is God’s choice and nothing he can do about that.


REFLECTION

  • Why is it important for us never to take for granted our gifts from the Lord?

GENESIS 27 JACOB RECEIVES ISAAC’S BLESSING

January 24


GENESIS 27

26 Then his father Isaac said to him, “Come near and kiss me, my son.” 27 So he came near and kissed him. And Isaac smelled the smell of his garments and blessed him and said, “See, the smell of my son is as the smell of a field that the Lord has blessed!
28 May God give you of the dew of heaven and of the fatness of the earth and plenty of grain and wine. 29 Let peoples serve you, and nations bow down to you. Be lord over your brothers, and may your mother’s sons bow down to you. Cursed be everyone who curses you, and blessed be everyone who blesses you!” 30 As soon as Isaac had finished blessing Jacob, when Jacob had scarcely gone out from the presence of Isaac his father, Esau his brother came in from his hunting. 31 He also prepared delicious food and brought it to his father. And he said to his father, “Let my father arise and eat of his son’s game, that you may bless me.” – Genesis 27:26-31


GENESIS 27 JACOB RECEIVES ISAAC’S BLESSING

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

Isaac asked Jacob to come and kiss him for the blessing

And since Jacob had Esau’s garments on, he smelled like him

Then Isaac began pouring down his blessing on his son

That he may be given the bounty for his field in grain and wine

That he may have the authority that nations will bow down to him

Blessed are those who bless him and cursed are those who cursed him.


According to a theological dictionary, a blessing was a public declaration of a favored status with God. It also endowed power for prosperity and success. In all cases, the blessing served as a guide and motivation to pursue a course of life within the blessing. The major terms are related to the word meaning “to kneel”, since in earlier times, one would kneel to receive a blessing. No wonder it was very important to have God’s blessing so that there will be a harvest of plenty and prosperity.

After Jacob deceived his father, he finally got the blessing that was usually bestowed on the firstborn son. This was why Rebekah made sure that Jacob got it because she was told by God that it was Jacob who will be the recipient of that fulfillment of the covenant promise between Abraham and God.


REFLECTION

  • Why do you think it is important for Christians to bless their children?

GENESIS 27 JACOB DECEIVES HIS FATHER

January 23


GENESIS 27

18 So he went in to his father and said, “My father.” And he said, “Here I am. Who are you, my son?” 19 Jacob said to his father, “I am Esau your firstborn. I have done as you told me; now sit up and eat of my game, that your soul may bless me.” 20 But Isaac said to his son, “How is it that you have found it so quickly, my son?” He answered, “Because the Lord your God granted me success.” 21 Then Isaac said to Jacob, “Please come near, that I may feel you, my son, to know whether you are really my son Esau or not.” 22 So Jacob went near to Isaac his father, who felt him and said, “The voice is Jacob’s voice, but the hands are the hands of Esau.” 23 And he did not recognize him, because his hands were hairy like his brother Esau’s hands. So he blessed him. 24 He said, “Are you really my son Esau?” He answered, “I am.” 25 Then he said, “Bring it near to me, that I may eat of my son’s game and bless you.” So he brought it near to him, and he ate; and he brought him wine, and he drank. Genesis 27:18-25


GENESIS 27 JACOB DECEIVES HIS FATHER

A poem inspired by these verses by ILMA

In obedience to his mother Rebekah’s request

Jacob deceives his father despite apprehensions

Even though Isaac sensed that he wasn’t Esau

And he sounded like his younger son Jacob

The fake hair on his skin convinced him it was Esau

Jacob served him the dish and brought him wine to drink.


When the serpent deceived Eve to eat the fruit of the forbidden tree, we all know that his purpose was to destroy the relationship of Adam and Eve with God and that they will all envy the wisdom that God possesses. The aim is to make them go against God’s directive. In the case of Jacob, it is a different story. Jacob was Rebekah’s favorite. The bible doesn’t say why she favored him more than Esau, but we know that God revealed to Rebekah that Jacob was to be the one whose covenant promise of God was to be fulfilled while the twins were still in her womb. But the purpose of Jacob’s deception was for God’s covenant promise with Abraham to be fulfilled. It wasn’t a turning away from God but an act of obedience to allow the covenant promise to be fulfilled.


REFLECTION

  • Do you think Rebekah and Jacob’s deception were justified in God’s eyes?