DUTIES OF HUSBANDS AND WIVES TOWARDS EACH OTHER ILMA’S VLOG


July 17
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DUTIES OF HUSBANDS AND WIVES TOWARDS EACH OTHER
Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 But because of sexual immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3 The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise the wife also to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise, the husband also does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 But this I say by way of concession, not of command. – 1 Corinthians 7:1-6
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In this letter, Paul addresses the teaching on marriage. He talks about how a man shouldn’t touch a woman. Because of the existing issues about sexual immorality in the church at Corinth, he advises the men to marry and have his own wife, and likewise the women to have her own husband. He then explains the duties of husbands and wives once they commit to be with each other in verses 3-5. They both have a duty to fulfill to each other. In verse 4, he reminds the wife that since she became one with her husband, she now does not have authority or ownership to her own body and vice-versa with the husband. It is interesting how the world twists the concept of marriage. When a man and a woman marry one another, they still think that they can do what they want with their own bodies or that they have authority over it. Many worldly couples please their own selves and there is no covenant to keep each other holy and fulfilled with one another. In verse 5, Paul advises them to ensure that they do not deprive one another of their own bodies if they are married. The only thing that should stop them from indulging in pleasuring each other is when they have to come together to pray. In other words, Paul is explaining that God still comes first in their relationship if they have committed to Christ as their Lord and Savior. Just like a man and woman becomes one flesh when they get married, believers and Jesus Christ becomes one as well. We need to submit to each other as husbands and wives and submit to Christ as our head in our spiritual lives.
Sadly, many worldly people operate individually even when they get married. They do what they want when they were still single and never submitted to each other. When they do this, they give Satan the power to destroy their relationship
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REFLECTION
• Why would the world not understand the concept of submission to each other?

THE BODY BELONGS TO THE LORD ILMA’S VLOG

July 16
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THE BODY BELONGS TO THE LORD
12 All things are permitted for me, but not all things are of benefit. All things are permitted for me, but I will not be mastered by anything. 13 Food is for the stomach and the stomach is for food, however God will do away with both of them. But the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body. 14 Now God has not only raised the Lord, but will also raise us up through His power. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are parts of Christ? Shall I then take away the parts of Christ and make them parts of a prostitute? Far from it! 16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH.” 17 But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18 Flee sexual immorality. Every other sin that a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought for a price: therefore, glorify God in your body. – 1 Corinthians 6:12-20
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In this letter, Paul reminds the believers that although all things are allowed, it doesn’t mean that everything is beneficial. He explains the importance of not being consumed by anything. In verse 13, he sets the boundaries for believers to remember: that food is for the stomach but the body isn’t for sexual immorality. Paul tells them that their bodies belong to Christ and since it does, they need to keep it pure and holy. In verse 15, he replicates again to them that if they belong to Christ, then their bodies are parts of Him.
Peter warns the believers that they must never ever join themselves with prostitutes. Since Christ is their husband and believers as the wife. In verse 16, Paul reiterates to them the sanctity of marriage in Genesis 2:24 says Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Just like a man and a woman becomes one, the believer is one with Christ’s spirit.
In verse 18, Paul reproves the believers to run away from any sexual immorality. He says that a sexually immoral person is committing a sin against his own body. As a servant of God, He owns us and so our bodies are not ours. We need to keep it sanctified for the Lord. ________________________________________
REFLECTION
• Why is it important for Christians to keep their bodies pure and holy?

THOSE WHO WON’T INHERIT GOD’S KINGDOM ILMA’S VLOG

July 15
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THOSE WHO WON’T INHERIT GOD’S KINGDOM
And this to your brothers and sisters! 9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor those habitually drunk, nor verbal abusers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.
-1 Corinthians 6:9-11
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In this letter of Paul to the Corinthians, he enumerates those who will not inherit the kingdom of God. He specifically points out the unrighteous people who are the following:
• Sexually immoral- gotquestions.org defines this as “porneia” which is translated as “whoredom, fornication, idolatry. It means a surrendering of sexual purity and primarily used with pre-marital sexual relations. From this work, we get the English word “pornography”, stemming from the concept of “selling off.” It is the selling off of sexual purity and involves any type of sexual expression outside the boundaries of a biblically defined marriage relationship.
• Idolaters -Merriam Webster defines this word as the worship of a physical object as god or immoderate attachment or devotion to something or someone. Some synonyms would be: worship, adulation, deification, hero worship.
• Adulterers -for Christians, adultery is the sin of a married man having sexual relations with anyone other than his wife or a married woman having sexual relations with anyone other than her husband. James 4:4 specifically says that adultery to God is friendship with the world.
• Homosexuals- sexual relationship with same sex. Leviticus 18:22 prohibits this act.
• Thieves-getting something that isn’t yours, to satisfy your desire to have it.
• The greedy- Proverbs 1:19 says the greed takes away your life. It consumes you.
• Habitual drunks-Ephesians 5:18 says that habitual drinking leads to wickedness.
• Verbal abusers- Matthew 12:36-37 reminds us that we will be accountable for each word we utter. Verbal abusers will struggle with accounting for their wickedness.
• Swindlers-are dishonest and defrauders. They purposely do it to gain something for themselves.
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REFLECTION
• Why do you think Paul enumerated to the Corinthians these sins?

AVOIDING LAWSUITS AMONG BELIEVERS ILMA’S VLOG


July 14
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AVOIDING LAWSUITS AMONG BELIEVERS
Does any one of you, when he has a case against his neighbor, dare to go to law before the unrighteous and not before the saints? 2 Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world? If the world is judged by you, are you not competent to form the smallest law courts? 3 Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more matters of this life? 4 So if you have law courts dealing with matters of this life, do you appoint them as judges who are of no account in the church? 5 I say this to your shame. Is it so, that there is not among you anyone wise who will be able to decide between his brothers and sisters, 6 but brother goes to law with brother, and that before unbelievers? 7 Actually, then, it is already a defeat for you, that you have lawsuits with one another. Why not rather suffer the wrong? Why not rather be defrauded? 8 On the contrary, you yourselves do wrong and defraud. – 1 Corinthians 6:1-8
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In this letter, Paul confronts once again the Corinthian church of their trivial issues that cause the members of this church to be divided. In verse 1, he raises a question to the family of believers about bringing to court their insignificant issues. He is rebuking them for not dealing with the issues at hand in a loving and wise way. The members of this church were having disputes that they become so petty to bring it to the higher courts. Paul wants them to realize that believers are given the chance to judge the world, or even angels. In verse 3, he reiterates the authority given to those who serve Christ. If the believer has been given the Holy Spirit to live inside him, then he has the gift of wisdom to discern and recognize what is right or wrong and what is loving or not.
He questions them in verse 4 about leaving matters to be decided upon by those who do not belong to the church. Of course, Paul doesn’t discount the importance of government and civil laws. What he is trying to address here were the reports that reached him regarding the unimportant quarrels that could easily be resolved among their fellow believer. In verse 7, he points out to them that he considers it a defeat when they are doing this immature and unloving way to deal with differences among their brothers and sisters in Christ. He was stressing the point that it is better to be cheated on rather than bring it to human courts. It would only show that the family of believers are not united in their understanding of God’s laws.
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REFLECTION
• What does lawsuits among fellow believers reveal to unbelievers and the world?

JUDGING BELIEVERS, NOT UNBELIEVERS ILMA’S BLOG


July 13
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JUDGING BELIEVERS, NOT UNBELIEVERS
9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people; 10 I did not at all mean with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the greedy and swindlers, or with idolaters, for then you would have to leave the world. 11 But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is a sexually immoral person, or a greedy person, or an idolater, or is verbally abusive, or habitually drunk, or a swindler—not even to eat with such a person. 12 For what business of mine is it to judge outsiders? Do you not judge those who are within the church? 13 But those who are outside, God judges. REMOVE THE EVIL PERSON FROM AMONG YOURSELVES. – 1 Corinthians 5:9-13
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In this letter, Paul clarifies what he meant when he rebuked believers who tolerate sins in the church. He wasn’t talking about those who are unbelievers or those who do not know the Lord, he knows that God is the only one to judge those who are unbelievers, just like he said in verse 13. Paul even asks a rhetorical question in verse 12 “Do you not judge those who are within the church?” What he meant by this statement is that we are supposed to rebuke and correct each other when our brothers or sisters in Christ are sinning just as Matthew 18:15 reiterates. It says : “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. So, what is Paul is actually implying in this letter when he confronted those who tolerate this sinful believer who has sexual relationship with his father’s wife? He is addressing that they do not care enough to correct someone who is living in sin, thereby contaminating the purity of other believers. It also shakes their faith when they see sin being tolerated.
Paul wants them to confront sins that he enumerated in verse 11 such as sexual immorality, greed, idolatry, verbal abuse, habitual drinking, or swindling. If they were not believers, he had no right to judge them, but if they claim to be Christians and engage in these sins, then, he has to judge them so they can repent and return to God. He wants the evil person to be removed from the body of Christ.
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REFLECTION
• Why are some believers afraid to confront sins of fellow believers in the body?

UNLEAVENED BREAD OF SINCERITY AND TRUTH ILMA’S VLOG


July 12
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UNLEAVENED BREAD OF SINCERITY AND TRUTH
6 Your boasting is not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump of dough? 7 Clean out the old leaven so that you may be a new lump, just as you are in fact unleavened. For Christ our Passover also has been sacrificed. 8 Therefore let’s celebrate the feast, not with old leaven, nor with the leaven of malice and wickedness, but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth. – 1 Corinthians 5:6-8
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In this letter, Paul deals with the sin of arrogance and boasting. Previous to this part of his letter, he was calling out a brother in Christ who was in the Corinthian church who was engaging in a sexual sin with his father’s wife. In those times, some men have multiple wives but it doesn’t mean that God approved that. Deuteronomy 17:17 says: “And he shall not acquire many wives for himself, so that his heart does not turn away; nor shall he greatly increase silver and gold for himself.” The Old Testament mentions some men who had over one wife such as many important figures like Esau (Gen 26:34; 28:6-9), Jacob (Gen 29:15-28), Elkanah (1 Samuel 1:1-8), David (1 Samuel 25:39-44; 2 Samuel 3:2-5; 5:13-16), and Solomon (1 Kings 11:1-3) so, we can assume that some men in the Corinthian church that probably had over one wife. This man that Paul called out must have had a father who had over one wife aside from his own mother.
In this part of his letter, Paul emphasizes the importance of keeping a sanctified life for every believer. He confronts those members of the church who tolerates this man who committed sexual sin with his father’s wife. He wants them to understand that when the whole bunch of believers are corrupted by just even one sinner, it will affect other believers and compromise their purity. Paul likens it to making bread, where a little leaven affects the whole lump of dough. He advises them to cleanse themselves from the old leaven so they can be a new lump just like they were unleavened. He reminds them of the sacrifice of Christ on the cross that made the old leaven a new one. In other words, the only way we can have a new life, is by believing in the Lord Jesus Christ.
In verse 8, he tells the Corinthian church to celebrate with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth instead of the old leaven of malice and wickedness. This is how important it is for all the believers to joyfully wear their new nature in Christ and give up all the old sinful ways that isn’t becoming of a true believer. This is why he rebukes those who were arrogant in tolerating the sinful believer in their church at Corinth.
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REFLECTION
• Why is it important to wear Christ and never let ourselves be corrupted by sin?

PAUL WON’T TOLERATE SIN AMONG BELIEVERS ILMA’S VLOG


July 11
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PAUL WON’T TOLERATE SIN AMONG BELIEVERS
It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and sexual immorality of such a kind as does not exist even among the Gentiles, namely, that someone has his father’s wife. 2 You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead, so that the one who had done this deed would be removed from your midst. 3 For I, on my part, though absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this, as though I were present. 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, 5 I have decided to turn such a person over to Satan for the destruction of his body, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord. – 1 Corinthians 5:1-5
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This letter of Paul to the Corinthian church may sound very harsh to those who do not know Christ, but if you are a true believer, you will definitely understand why he rebukes this sexually immoral believer quite severely. In verse 1, we get a glimpse of the nature of the sin that this person committed. He was sleeping with his father’s wife. He mentions that even among the Gentiles (who are unbelievers), this kind of sin does not exist.
In verse 2, Paul addresses the church of Corinth for tolerating such habitual sexual immorality among the body of Christ. In verse 3, we get a picture that Paul was not physically present in Corinth when he wrote this letter. Yet Paul knew what was going on because of the report he had been furnished. In verses 4-5, Paul chooses to remove this person from the fellowship of the church. When he said that he has decided to turn this person over to Satan, he meant, that this person will no longer take part in the fellowship of the family of believers. It may seem very judgmental and severe, but Paul is faithful to the ensure that the sanctification of the other believers were not compromised. We are not talking about someone who just sinned once and repented, but this person has continued to engage in such immorality. Just as a rotten apple will affect the other good apple, Paul knew that if he doesn’t remove this unrepentant sinner, many of the other believers will be corrupted and compromised. By confronting the sin, Paul hopes to save his soul when he is deprived of the fellowship of Christ’s body. Tolerating another believer when they are sinning is compromising our relationship with our Lord, who hates sin. We are loving if we confront sin and rebuke sinning brothers or sisters. We are unloving when we let them continue to sin and lose their salvation.
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REFLECTION
• Why is tolerance of sin not to be permitted in a true church?

PAUL ADMONISHES THE CORINTHIANS OF SPIRITUAL PRIDE ILMA’S BLOG

July 10
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PAUL ADMONISHES THE CORINTHIANS OF SPIRITUAL PRIDE
14 I do not write these things to shame you, but to admonish you as my beloved children. 15 For if you were to have countless tutors in Christ, yet you would not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. 16 Therefore I urge you, be imitators of me. 17 For this reason I have sent to you Timothy, who is my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, and he will remind you of my ways which are in Christ, just as I teach everywhere in every church. 18 Now some have become arrogant, as though I were not coming to you. 19 But I will come to you soon, if the Lord wills, and I shall find out, not the words of those who are arrogant, but their power. 20 For the kingdom of God is not in words, but in power. 21 What do you desire? That I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?
– 1 Corinthians 4:14-20
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In this letter, Paul reproves the Corinthian church as a father would reprimand a child. He considers them like his own children. He is concerned that they were dazzled by many other teachers telling them about the gospel. He simply reminds them that his love for them is like the love of a father to his own children. It is very different from the reproof they get from other teachers. As a father would expect his own children, he admonishes them to imitate what he does. He was setting an example for them to emulate. He wants them to follow the way that Christ has taught him.
In verse 17, he mentions sending Timothy, his beloved spiritual son so that they can be reminded of how Paul’s way was and so that they won’t be misled by the carnal temptations around them. He mentions to them that he teaches the same gospel and the same truth in the other churches as well so there is no reason to be jealous or envious because he treats all believers the same.
In verse 19, he targets their arrogance in presuming that Paul wasn’t coming over there for some reason that they concocted or assumed. He straightens out their wrong thinking by re-directing their attention on the kingdom power which is only attained by a complete dependence on God on everything. He wanted them to give up their self-reliance and their dependence on their own understanding. Spiritual pride and arrogance is prevalent in many churches today. We could have a good reminder from Paul about this sin problem that is so present in many churches that have chosen a wrong path.________________________________________
REFLECTION
• Why should we be mindful of spiritual pride as a sin that easily trips us up?

SERVANTS OF CHRIST & CARETAKERS OF TRUTH ILMA’S BLOG


July 8
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SERVANTS OF CHRIST & CARETAKERS OF TRUTH
This is the way any person is to regard us: as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God. 2 In this case, moreover, it is required of stewards that one be found trustworthy. 3 But to me it is an insignificant matter that I would be examined by you, or by any human court; in fact, I do not even examine myself. 4 For I am not aware of anything against myself; however, I am not vindicated by this, but the one who examines me is the Lord. 5 Therefore do not go on passing judgment before the time, but wait until the Lord comes, who will both bring to light the things hidden in the darkness and disclose the motives of human hearts; and then praise will come to each person from God.6 Now these things, brothers and sisters, I have figuratively applied to myself and Apollos on your account, so that in us you may learn not to exceed what is written, so that no one of you will become arrogant in behalf of one against the other. 7 For who considers you as superior? What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as if you had not received it? – 1 Corinthians 4:1-7
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In this letter, Paul reminds the believers of their role in the kingdom of God. They are called servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God. What does it mean to be a servant of Christ? In verse 2, Paul clearly mentions the importance of being a person with integrity. He must me trustworthy. In verse 3, he points out that self-examination is a human act while being examined by the Spirit of God is a divine intervention. As a servant of God, we must be constantly checked and examined by the Spirit of God as to our loyalty and service to our King Jesus. It is unimportant to hear what other people think or say about us, but our hearts must be examined by the Lord God himself through the Scriptures that are given to those who love him. Paul also warned us not to pass judgments on others because it is only the Lord who knows the hearts of all men. It is only Jesus who can bring into the light all forms of darkness that are hidden from man to see. Paul talks about what will happen when the Lord comes back: all darkness hidden will be exposed in the light that Jesus will bring with Him. He is full of radiance and brightness that there will be no way that any form of darkness will still exist. The human hearts will all be exposed, meaning all the condition of the hearts of all man will come into knowledge to everyone and there is no more hiding. All believers are also expected to take care of the mysteries of God revealed in Scripture.
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REFLECTION
• Why must we take to heart our role as servants of Christ and stewards of truth?

THE TEMPLE OF GOD IN YOU ILMA’S VLOG


July 7
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THE TEMPLE OF GOD IN YOU
16 Do you not know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? 17 If anyone destroys the temple of God, God will destroy that person; for the temple of God is holy, and that is what you are. 18 Take care that no one deceives himself. If anyone among you thinks that he is wise in this age, he must become foolish, so that he may become wise. 19 For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in the sight of God. For it is written: “He is THE ONE WHO CATCHES THE WISE BY THEIR CRAFTINESS”; 20 and again, “THE LORD KNOWS THE THOUGHTS of the wise, THAT THEY ARE useless.” 21 So then, no one is to be boasting in people. For all things belong to you, 22 whether Paul or Apollos or Cephas, or the world or life or death, or things present or things to come; all things belong to you, 23 and you belong to Christ, and Christ belongs to God. – 1 Corinthians 3:16-23
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In this letter, Paul reminds the believers that their bodies are the temple of God since the Spirit of God lives inside them. Because they are God’s temple, they cannot be destroyed. If anyone try to hurt God’s temple, God will deal with those who try to hurt it. Paul explains how it is important to remember that as the temple of God, we need to keep pure and holy.
In verse 18, Paul reminds them to make sure that they are not deceived by those who think they are wise. He cautions those who think they are wise that they need to be humble enough to admit that they aren’t wise so that they can become wise. This almost sounds bizarre for the world to understand. Paul explains further in verse 19 that the world’s wisdom is unlike God’s wisdom. God knows everything so, it is of no use to boast about anything they know since everything belongs to God anyway. He reiterates the importance of gratitude to the one who gave us all, our Lord Jesus Christ.
In the world we currently live in today, many people forget the source of life and everything we have. We become so performance-oriented individuals because that is how the world wants it. It is all about competition and performance. Our fallen nature tends to go with the world system’s concept of salvation. We think that we can contribute something to our salvation when in reality, there is nothing we can ever do to do that. Paul reminds us to never forget where we came from, how we need God and how to be grateful to Him for all that he had done for us. We forget to remember that we ought to keep ourselves pure so we can be used for God’s purpose alone.
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REFLECTION
• How can we keep God’s temple pure and holy for His purpose alone?