August 15
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IF I DO NOT HAVE LOVE, I AM NOTHING
If I speak with the tongues of mankind and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and know all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 And if I give away all my possessions to charity, and if I surrender my body so that I may glory, but do not have love, it does me no good. – 1 Corinthians 13:1-3
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In this chapter Paul follows up the spiritual gifts given to the body of Christ may have many members but one body. This 13th chapter of the letter of Paul to the Corinthians have been a favorite passage that most people in their wedding vows or readings for their matrimonial ceremony. I had it read by someone in my own wedding as the reading for the sermon. When I was married, I wasn’t yet born again, so the way I understood this chapter is so carnal. I didn’t know how to study the bible then yet and I used to take some of the verses out of context and just extract something and use my own understanding without really consulting the Holy Spirit and further studying the passages in context to who is talking and who is it addressed to.
This letter was addressed to the Corinthian church who are so fascinated by the spiritual gifts and Paul gives them this warning that if you have all the various gifts given by the Holy Spirit and not have love (agape), you are nothing. Verse 1 mentions the gifts of tongues which may be amazing, but without love, it is just noise. In verse 2, the prophetic gift is mentioned; no matter how much visions and mysteries unfolded by the prophet, and do not have love, he amounts to nothing. Paul also mentions that if you have much faith but do not have love, again, he says that you are useless. In verse 3, it talks about the gift of giving and giving up one’s life, but do not love, it is pointless.
The “love” that Paul refers to here is agape which is unconditional love. This is the highest form of love. In 1 John 4:16, we get a glimpse of God’s character. He is love. It didn’t say he is loving. It says he is the source of “agape”. So, without him, no one can ever love unconditionally. So, I would like to paraphrase Paul’s verse “if I do not have love, I am nothing” to “if I do not have God in my life, I am non-existent.” It is so misunderstood when it is used in the context of romance, because it is a very different kind of love. In other words, when a couple marries and use this verse as a vow, they are actually making God the third person in their marriage, which will make that covenant a forever vow.
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REFLECTION
• Why is it important to ensure that the gifts we receive is used for God’s purpose?